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But then you pick yourself up, you collect yourself and you look to see where you need to go to move forward to walk away from where you were just so that you can be away from it. Right now you have to realize it's okay to not necessarily know where you're going, just to know that you're not going back to where you were. Be resolute in that knowledge. That. Is the most important thing.
Monday, March 26, 2012
Monday, March 19, 2012
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Something to think on...
For my Cheerleaders who are also on the same journey as myself...
One thing you may be facing as I am, is that you want to look nice and put together yet, you find your wallet just can't accommodate such drastic changes in your wardrobe. You don't want to go out in sweats all the time (a hold over from being bigger and trying to hide that nasty fact...doesn't work) and you want to be stylish, yet how do you do it without busting your budget?
I will say up front that I am spoiled, where I live we have a number of consignment shops that cater to the plus sized woman. Just in case you don't know what a consignment shop is, I'll explain.
A consignment shop is where you take your gently used clothing and the shop sells it for you on your behalf and you get a portion of the sale (usually it's a 60/40 split) so if you take in a pair of jeans and the shop sells them for, say $10.00, the shop gets $6.00 and you get $4.00 (or the other way around, just depends on how the shop has it set up) and if you're really lucky, you can get store credit at a higher price (say store credit for $5.00 instead....so you can shop in the store for what you just sold) so it just depends on how the store owner has their personal policies in place.
Some stores will have it set up that if after a month the items don't sell you can come back and pick them up and be on your way or you can sell them to the store for a flat rate. Again, it just depends on the store. For some stores they will buy the clothing outright and resell them at a marked up price (think Plato's Closet) which is fine, but I think you probably don't make as much on the clothing. However we're talking about purchasing here, not selling. Although, keep the selling in mind, we'll get back to that.
What I've been so fortunate for is that where I live, there is one of these shops and I've established a rapport with the owners. As it turns out, The Wonder One used to work with the owners' husband many years ago! Talk about your small worlds, eh? lol They both (the owner and her husband) are very honest and forthright and helpful. If you ask for their honest opinion, they'll give it to you. If you don't want to know the truth, don't ask them! The great thing is, I've gone in there with $30.00 in my pocket and walked out with a darn near full wardrobe! The selection is and always has been great. So I would recommend looking in the yellow pages (yes, an actual phone book) to see what you have in your area and frequent the shop. You'll be amazed at what you find. The best part?
As you lose weight on your journey, you can take your gently used, well cared for items BACK to the shop to resell and repurchase other smaller items. It's what I've done. I've also bought some very nice leather winter coats there as well, so don't rule it out. My style is such that I'm not into overly trendy clothes as it is, and when I go to buy clothes I look for clothes that don't scream a specific time period. That way the clothes can stand the test of time and can be worn for many years, either by you, or others who would maybe purchase them after you.
Just something for you to think on Cheerleaders.
Hope it helps.
One thing you may be facing as I am, is that you want to look nice and put together yet, you find your wallet just can't accommodate such drastic changes in your wardrobe. You don't want to go out in sweats all the time (a hold over from being bigger and trying to hide that nasty fact...doesn't work) and you want to be stylish, yet how do you do it without busting your budget?
I will say up front that I am spoiled, where I live we have a number of consignment shops that cater to the plus sized woman. Just in case you don't know what a consignment shop is, I'll explain.
A consignment shop is where you take your gently used clothing and the shop sells it for you on your behalf and you get a portion of the sale (usually it's a 60/40 split) so if you take in a pair of jeans and the shop sells them for, say $10.00, the shop gets $6.00 and you get $4.00 (or the other way around, just depends on how the shop has it set up) and if you're really lucky, you can get store credit at a higher price (say store credit for $5.00 instead....so you can shop in the store for what you just sold) so it just depends on how the store owner has their personal policies in place.
Some stores will have it set up that if after a month the items don't sell you can come back and pick them up and be on your way or you can sell them to the store for a flat rate. Again, it just depends on the store. For some stores they will buy the clothing outright and resell them at a marked up price (think Plato's Closet) which is fine, but I think you probably don't make as much on the clothing. However we're talking about purchasing here, not selling. Although, keep the selling in mind, we'll get back to that.
What I've been so fortunate for is that where I live, there is one of these shops and I've established a rapport with the owners. As it turns out, The Wonder One used to work with the owners' husband many years ago! Talk about your small worlds, eh? lol They both (the owner and her husband) are very honest and forthright and helpful. If you ask for their honest opinion, they'll give it to you. If you don't want to know the truth, don't ask them! The great thing is, I've gone in there with $30.00 in my pocket and walked out with a darn near full wardrobe! The selection is and always has been great. So I would recommend looking in the yellow pages (yes, an actual phone book) to see what you have in your area and frequent the shop. You'll be amazed at what you find. The best part?
As you lose weight on your journey, you can take your gently used, well cared for items BACK to the shop to resell and repurchase other smaller items. It's what I've done. I've also bought some very nice leather winter coats there as well, so don't rule it out. My style is such that I'm not into overly trendy clothes as it is, and when I go to buy clothes I look for clothes that don't scream a specific time period. That way the clothes can stand the test of time and can be worn for many years, either by you, or others who would maybe purchase them after you.
Just something for you to think on Cheerleaders.
Hope it helps.
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Seen along the path during last night's walk...
This goose had a mate but I couldn't get a picture of the two of them together. They were just walking around and across the path in front and then behind us as we walked past. Yes, I said as we walked past. They took hardly no notice of us and kept right on going. I asked The Wonder One if he wanted to have some fun and run with them, but he said no. Personally I think he may have been fearful that they would've bum rushed him, lol. They were laid back when we were just walking by but I think if we'd been running or running towards them, it would've been a different story entirely!
It's Wednesday...
Good Morning Cheerleaders!
Sorry my posting has been so lean this past week and I have to tell you up front, it most likely will be for the next week or so. The reason being is that I got a new job and it's keeping me busy and on the run. When I get home at night I'm exhausted and darn near falling into bed!
I did get a good walk in last night with The Wonder One and I'll post the most adorable pic I took on that walk later this afternoon when I get home from work.
But right now I'm sure you're wanting to know how I did this week, right?
Well, I have to say, I'm sort of disappointed. The reason being is because I was certain I was going to be a loser. In a good way of course. But I wasn't a gainer either (in a bad way, natch!) so for that I'm glad.
Looking back on the week, I didn't get to work out like I wanted to because I worked so much (both jobs, back to back on some days) and my Weight Watcher plan wasn't followed to the point as I would've normally liked because of the time crunch.
As I get used to this new adjustment, it'll just be a matter of figuring out what it'll take time organization wise to make it all work together. The first step in it all was that last night The Wonder One showed me a really nice fitness path right next to where the new job is that is 1.2 miles so that is REALLY good for a start. I can get that done right after work most days before I even get in the car and then BOOM my workout is done without even a second thought.
Thank GOD for The Wonder One!! I love that man!
Sorry my posting has been so lean this past week and I have to tell you up front, it most likely will be for the next week or so. The reason being is that I got a new job and it's keeping me busy and on the run. When I get home at night I'm exhausted and darn near falling into bed!
I did get a good walk in last night with The Wonder One and I'll post the most adorable pic I took on that walk later this afternoon when I get home from work.
But right now I'm sure you're wanting to know how I did this week, right?
Well, I have to say, I'm sort of disappointed. The reason being is because I was certain I was going to be a loser. In a good way of course. But I wasn't a gainer either (in a bad way, natch!) so for that I'm glad.
Looking back on the week, I didn't get to work out like I wanted to because I worked so much (both jobs, back to back on some days) and my Weight Watcher plan wasn't followed to the point as I would've normally liked because of the time crunch.
As I get used to this new adjustment, it'll just be a matter of figuring out what it'll take time organization wise to make it all work together. The first step in it all was that last night The Wonder One showed me a really nice fitness path right next to where the new job is that is 1.2 miles so that is REALLY good for a start. I can get that done right after work most days before I even get in the car and then BOOM my workout is done without even a second thought.
Thank GOD for The Wonder One!! I love that man!
Monday, March 12, 2012
Just a few tips from one of my pals...
I know that for the newbie going to the gym, you wonder "Newbie...should I wear make-up? Would I be taken seriously in my workout endeavors?" So I turned to a friend of mine for some answers and this is what she had to say on the matter...
A big thank you to Kendyl S. for her giving me permission and the chuckle this video provided. (Sorry but I never laughed so hard at the line...."You're not there to be healthy, you're there to get a date")
A big thank you to Kendyl S. for her giving me permission and the chuckle this video provided. (Sorry but I never laughed so hard at the line...."You're not there to be healthy, you're there to get a date")
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
It's Wednesday...
Hey Cheerleaders!
We got something to cheer about!
This week's efforts and diligence brought forth some results I'm proud to say......that I'm a big fat LOSER!
I lost 2 pounds this week! WooHoo! Taking my grand total to 40 off and I'm down to 246!
YaY me! Even with Aunt Flo in town to pay me a horrible visit (the bitch) and the need for chocolate overran all other sane synaptic firings in my head, it seems as though getting my shoes laced back up made the difference. Which let's face it. I knew it was just a matter of time that I was going to have to start really working back out again. I had to. You eat everyday, you should workout in some form or another for at least 20 minutes everyday. At least that's how I look at it. So I'm off to a good and practical start.
Give me time, I'll be buying clothes like my inspiration dress!
My wallet will be in tears....so will The Wonder One, lol.
We got something to cheer about!
This week's efforts and diligence brought forth some results I'm proud to say......that I'm a big fat LOSER!
I lost 2 pounds this week! WooHoo! Taking my grand total to 40 off and I'm down to 246!
YaY me! Even with Aunt Flo in town to pay me a horrible visit (the bitch) and the need for chocolate overran all other sane synaptic firings in my head, it seems as though getting my shoes laced back up made the difference. Which let's face it. I knew it was just a matter of time that I was going to have to start really working back out again. I had to. You eat everyday, you should workout in some form or another for at least 20 minutes everyday. At least that's how I look at it. So I'm off to a good and practical start.
Give me time, I'll be buying clothes like my inspiration dress!
My wallet will be in tears....so will The Wonder One, lol.
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